Dear Friends I am writing today about happiness and the ways to find it. while it is a big question that where it exist? Is it exist in the things which we wish to have or is it there in our mind or it is a sense or feeling which we already have in our mind. I think we should have some examples first to understand it.

If you have any memory or event when you found yourself very happy in your past life please go back to that moment it was a physical thing you got or it was a memorable incident which made you happy or it was a person who made you happy.......and so on. Know my question is how long it was with you for a minute for a day for a week for a month for an year. I think it is time dependent we get happy and have this feeling for some time and than we come back to our way. for an example I was very happy when I got very good marks in my high school as my parents relatives were praised me and appreciate me for the same so was it there in the marks or was it there in the thought that achieving good marks is good which our parents and other person were having in their mind.

If I see this in this manner than it is predefined, that where we can find happiness, there is a large number of expectations, wishes which we have in our mind and when we achieve we get happy but again I have a question Is it a short time feeling which we realize after each achievement.?

Dear friends What do you think about it.? please share your thoughts.

And we will start a healthy and meaningful discussion................